You Can Talk to Any Guy - If You Know These Three Rules

Do you wish you could approach and talk to any guy without making a fool of yourself? Are you able to talk to guys and have meaningful conversations without your friends helping you? Do you know how to get started and improve your game at this ultra-important step in a relationship? There are several rules you must keep in mind when talking to any guy.

Be Yourself

Although it may be tempting to put on a front and act like somebody else when first meeting a cute guy, it is definitely not a good idea. No matter what kind of actress you may be, the real you will eventually shine through. You don't want to get started in a relationship when you're not being yourself. It's just smarter all around to show off your actual personality, because your guy will deep down know that something is not right.

Don't Talk Too Much

Out of nervousness, you may find yourself talking nonstop and hoping to eventually be interrupted. Face it, guys talk less and usually slower than girls. Their average word count per day is one-fourth of ours. So fight the temptation to fill every spare second with noise and let him have a chance to say something. Asking him questions about his life is a great way to practice this step. It gives you a break to listen to his answers. You will be able to talk to any guy if you can learn to listen.

Smile

When a person is speaking without smiling, it usually looks like they are complaining or giving someone orders. Try looking around and watching people and see if it isn't true. You don't want to look overly serious and concerned about everything when talking. So use your smile frequently; this will also make him feel like you are welcoming what he has to say with open arms.

Eye Contact

Force yourself, no matter how uncomfortable you may feel, to look him in the eyes while talking. If you are looking around or down at the floor, he will feel like you don't even want to be talking to him at all. Eye contact will portray you as self-confident, which is a necessity if you want to appeal to guys. And you will be more self-confident after each conversation.

After following these simple steps, you will find yourself able to talk to any guy you want!

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.