Why is it He Cheats? Should I Forgive Him? Was it My Fault?

Why he cheats? That is the question. If this has happened to you; if your man has cheated on you, please accept my heartfelt sympathy. If you feel that your heart is broken, that is very understandable. But why did he do it? Was it your fault? Did he say it was your fault? Let us look into male psychology and see the situation logically. This is why he cheats:

It is his fault. If a man on the street sees your purse and robs you, is it your fault? No. So, if your man saw another woman and wanted to have a hook up with her, rather than keeping his interest at home where it belongs, is it your fault? No. It is the same situation. He saw something he wanted and did not have the moral fiber to say no.

Part of the problem is that some women just want to attract men; they do not care if the man is in a relationship or not. If your man did not have high moral standards, it would be hard for him to resist this attraction. The problem is them, not you.

Should you forgive him when he does this to you? Some women can. Some women cannot. What guarantee do you have that he will not do it again? If you caught him cheating, his so-called repentance probably is not real. But if he came to you to confess because his conscience was bothering him, then he probably will not do it again.

If you feel you cannot forgive when he cheats, that is understandable also. But do not be afraid to try again. You can make a guy fall in love with you; you can make him commit to you; all men are not cheaters.

The next time, be cautious. Fall in love with someone who has higher moral standards. Check the new guy out thoroughly before you give him your heart.

Remember, it is not you. It is his moral failure. He wanted something that he was not entitled to have. This is why he cheats.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.