Take this Advice to Make a Guy Commit

Published: 21st July 2010
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What makes it so hard to make a guy commit? What is it in the male psychology that makes them so afraid of commitment? Is there anything a girl can do to force him to commit? You can't force a guy to do anything, but if you use the art of persuasion, you can increase your odds. Take this dating advice and make a guy commit sooner rather than later or not at all.

Don't Push too Hard

You may feel like jumping on the guy and strangling him until he admits that he loves you and will commit to you. A direct approach like that isn't going to work. It will just make him panic and want to run. It may be a long time, if ever, before you see him again.

Don't Just Keep Waiting and Hoping

You don't want to make him run, but you do want to draw him in. Do that by making yourself less available to him. If you spend all your time thinking about him and being with him, he won't feel the need to commit to you. Before you can make a guy commit, you have to make him feel like he might lose you if he doesn't.

Do Be Confident in Yourself

When you fall in love with a guy, it's easy to lose your self confidence. You feel like you can't live without him and think less of yourself if he doesn't seem to love you back. Be confident in your ability to stand on your own two feet and move on if he can't commit to you. You can't lose if you're confident. Your self confidence will make him feel he has to commit to you if he wants to keep you. If he still won't commit, you will know what to do.

There's a saying, "You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink." In the world of romance, that means there is only so much you can you. If the guy is too dumb to see what he's got and you can't make a guy commit, maybe it's time to look for another one who will.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.

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