Are you trying to get that cute guy to fall in love with you? Have you been seeing him for a little while, but he doesn't seem to be that into you? Do you think you would have a better chance of winning him over if you knew what was going on in his head? Guys tend to be a little secretive about their true desires. Here's what you need to know before you set out to win his love.
There's no denying the importance of sex in a relationship. But what happens more often than not is the girl gives in to a guy's request for sex far too early. This usually results in the guy being happy to get what he wants, but doesn't have him opening his heart any faster. Why? Because the guys who insist on an early trip to bed usually want just that... nothing more.
Concentrate your efforts on the guys who really want more and who are willing to wait before guiding you into the bedroom. He really wants to get the real woman beneath that sexy veneer, so don't be too quick to just spurt out sexual innuendo and crude come ons.
You might also want to consider toning down your wardrobe if you've gotten into the habit of dressing to attract only the sexual impulses of men. After all, you want a real and complete man to pay attention to you and those skimpy little outfits might not cut it. Get real and let him see that you have more to show than just your cleavage.
Show him that you're intelligent and witty. Have fun and laugh with him. This is the time when you just want to hang back and relax. If you're too uptight and nervous about making the romance work in some unrealistic, romance novel way, you might be letting a great natural and relaxing moment slip you by.
Every time you're with him, think about how you're making him feel. Is he enjoying himself? Does he feel comfortable around you? Sure it's normal you'll both be a tad on edge, but the sooner you reach that comfort zone, the faster he'll let down his guard and simply allow an emotional bond to start to grow.
You don't want to rush through this process. It can be excruciatingly slow sometimes, but it is most definitely worth it. With your patience and love for life, he'll soon fall in love with you.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
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