Make Him Commit - Break Down His Resistance, Understand his Fear

Published: 13th August 2010
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Have you been dating your boyfriend long enough and you think he should make a commitment to you? Are you afraid to bring it up because you've scared guys away with this before? Have you had a string of boyfriends who never made any sort of commitment to you and you don't understand why? Men have a true fear of what will happen to them once they take that great step to commit to a woman. Here's what you need to understand.

Over and above everything, men fear losing their own sense of self once they become seriously involved with a woman. Before long she's dictating where they should go, when they should go and how they should get there. In addition to this, many women even spill this control over into his life, telling him who to hang out with and what he can and can't do.

There are probably few women out there who would tolerate a man who took such control, yet they turn around and do that very same thing to men.

Show him that you love the man he is and you accept him, flaws and all. Sure you can bring up a little thing here or there, but if you're always picking a battle over the slightest little thing, you're going to wear him out.

He wants to know that life with you will be fun, not a chore. He wants to laugh and enjoy his time with you, not get berated every time he opens his mouth. He wants the freedom to do the things he enjoys without you getting on his back. He wants to be treated like a man, not a child. Show him some respect and give him some praise and appreciation once in a while.

Instead of constantly picking on him, tend to your own life and make sure you're keeping busy with things that don't include him. Not only will this give him a chance to miss you and want to spend more time with you, but if you're pulling back enough, he might start to realize he risks losing you altogether.

You'd be surprised how quickly a man can move into action once he sees that everything is going great with his girl, yet she might be preparing to jump ship.

Get his commitment by showing how great it is being with you and how dreary his life could be if you skip out.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.

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