Make a Man Fall in Love - The Key to Unlock His Heart

Published: 28th July 2010
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Are you trying to get a great guy to fall in love with you? Is he cute, funny and kind, but he's not giving you the time of day? Do you want to find a way to capture his attention then win over his heart? Like thousands of women, you might be going about it the wrong way. Read on to see where you've gone astray and what path you really need to take to get straight to his heart.

When women want a guy's heart they seem to search for some kind of magic potion. They want to snap their fingers and, whammo, there he is. Or, on a more pragmatic note, they use sex to quickly get a guy interested.

But just as quickly as he becomes interested, he'll lose interest. Sex doesn't usually keep a guy around for long when there is nothing else keeping him at a woman's side. If this has been your way of operating, it might be time you revised your approach.

When a man sees a woman walk into a joint, skintight dress, cleavage down to there, slit up to her hips and strutting like she just wants to give it all away, all he sees is the sex and nothing more. For the guy who wants sex, that's perfect.

For the guy who wants a more substantial relationship, he'll look - what guy wouldn't - but he won't be interested in getting to know a woman who so obviously gets around a lot.

Tone it down. No, you don't have to dress like Mother Theresa, but there is definitely a more sedate level of sensuality you can aspire too rather than being blatantly sexy. Then let intelligence and friendliness gleam in your eyes instead of a sexy seduction. Of course you'll always want to look your best when you step out. Sexy or not, you want to attract him visually and give the guy the impression that you care about yourself.

When faced with the guy, play it cool and don't pull out the sex jokes, corny come ons or bedroom eyes. Be friendly and just think about having a fun and relaxed conversation with him. Let this guy see that you're smart, funny and you have plenty to offer. Get him to talk about himself and discover as much as you can about the man he is. Show a touch of admiration when it's deserved and let him know you enjoy being with him. Ideally, you want him to go home after a date with you feeling great about himself and the budding relationship with you.

Women can be quick to get on a guy's back for a variety of trivial things. Try to avoid arguments over petty things. You don't want your dates to turn into battlefields and you don't want him to think you're demanding and impossible to please. If you are the demanding type, you need to be aware of the pressure you're putting on a guy. Sure, you have the right to want what you want, but understand how he's dealing with you constant complaints and demands.

If he walks, you can't really blame him. Women often think of how they feel about every date. They analyze what the guy did and what he didn't. But few women are capable of looking at how they treat the guy. You need to think of how he's feeling when he ends the date.

The more fun he had with you, the more he'll want to see you again. Seeing you more will build his emotions more quickly and this is how he'll fall in love with you.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.

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