Let Love Grow – 3 Ideas to Start a Good Relationship

Published: 19th July 2010
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Have you met someone you really like, and you want to know how to let love grow? Have you had relationships before that fizzled out just when you were hoping to get serious? Would you like to avoid making the same mistakes again? New love is fragile, and you should be able to play it smart. Here are three ways to let love grow when you find someone new.

Love tip #1 - Be someone he can talk to.

Men want to be able to share themselves with someone. Sometimes this fact is overlooked by women, who assume that men are uncommunicative. But if you let him understand by your actions that he can open up to you, he will feel close to you.

When he makes comments and expresses thoughts, show that you acknowledge and accept him. Listen closely to what he says, and respond to what he says. Don't be self-absorbed, but give him as much attention as he gives you. He will really appreciate someone who can hear him, because men don't often get a chance to share their feelings.

Love tip #2 - Have sex only when you are ready.

There is no rule that applies to everyone about when is the right time to have sex. You need to decide what makes you comfortable and stick to it. If you want to get to monogamy, don't use sex to get it. Instead, make sure to wait until you can talk about it first.

If you want to sleep with a guy you're seeing, and you are okay if it doesn't turn into more than a casual fling, then that's ok, too. But make sure that you are not using sex to get something else. You have to let love grow, because if you try to force it by using sex as a manipulation tool, you are asking to get hurt.

Love tip #3 - Don't see him too often at first.

You can overdo your time together. During the early stages, it is common for two people to not be able to get enough of each other. But you should spend time apart, and have a chance to miss each other.

Give him a reason to pursue you. Let him open up to you, and don't use sex to get what you want. If you want to let love grow, you should give yourselves some breathing room.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.

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