Have you been sitting at home alone for far too long now and you want to know how you can attract a great guy? Are you reluctant to even go out because you know the results will only disappoint you? Do you think you might simply not have what it takes to appeal to men? Here's what you need to do.
Looks are important. Don't gripe about the injustice of this and get to work building a great wardrobe and getting your make up and hair into tiptop shape. Many women who feel they weren't gifted with natural beauty simply give up and don't even bother trying. But men look at the whole package and can easily look at the otherwise plain girl if she's put a great look together.
Your style is really a reflection of who you are, so you want to make sure your look is sending out the right message. Dress too severely and men might think you're too serious or stern. Dress too provocatively and they're apt to think you're a tramp. Find what works best for you and try to find a style that will be flirty and fun, without being cheap and gaudy.
Then, whatever you do, keep your desperate desire to meet a man out of your eyes. Women who've been waiting to be with a man for a long time can tend to display their hunger in a manner that can scare a guy before he's even gotten ten yards from her.
Be pleasant, fun, humorous, but beware of latching onto a guy.
Same goes for sex. You don't want to throw it around and allow guys to believe that you're cheap and easy. No doubt this will work if you're just looking to hook up for the night, but there will be a room full of great men who won't give you the time of day. Trust in men's ability to get to know you and discover the real woman you are before jumping into bed with him.
And finally, don't be in a rush. Sure it might not happen on that first night out. Not every man is going to click with every woman. But put yourself out there, remain vibrant yet slightly aloof and that great man will eventually cross your horizon. And when he does, you want to take it nice and slow. Not only will he see the complete lack of desperation in you, but he won't have to deal with the pressure of making a romance out of the encounter. Attracting men can be easy. Smile, have fun and watch them come.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
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