Does He Love You or Is it Only Lust?

Published: 15th August 2010
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Does he love you or is it only lust he's feeling? Is it a mixture of both? How can you tell? What should you do? Guys can be very confusing, but it is possible to unravel male psychology if you know how. Here are some telltale signs to look for. Then you will have your answer - Is it lust or does he love you?

Male Psychology

First you should know a little something about male psychology. The anticipation of sex and sex triggers different chemical reactions in the brains of men and women. Men get a rush of testosterone when they're turned on. This makes them aggressive. Women get a very different reaction that attaches them to the object of their desire. That's why women fall in love when they're turned on, while guys just lose interest after they've had sex.

When Does He Call You?

Does he only call you when he wants sex or does he just love the sound of your voice? If it's just for sex, then he's not in love. Keep him on the hook by not giving him what he wants. If he just calls another girl, then he's a player and you can forget about him. If he keeps chasing you, try to make a strong emotional connection. If it clicks between you - great! If not, don't stop dating other guys.

Does He Show You He Cares?

If a guy is only after sex, he might say all the words a girl wants to hear, but the little things will be missing. He won't send cute text messages at random times or call her out of the blue, just to talk. He won't be there for you when you're feeling down and he won't be tuned into the things that make you happy. If he really cares, he will always want to make you happy, even when you say "No." Does he love you? - probably!

Does He Hold You?

Men aren't as emotionally demonstrative as women until they've fallen head over heels in love. When you're out on a date with him does he put his arm around you in a formal way or does he draw you into him like he wants to keep you close? When you're alone together, does he love to just snuggle up close to you, even after sex? If he does, then count on it - he really has fallen for you.

How does your guy measure up? Does he love you or just want your body? It may be something in between. We have lots of dating advice tips and tricks that teach the alchemy of love. Learn how to magically transform lust into love, attract men and more in other segments of our love tutorial.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.

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