Does He Love You? - How Can You Know He's Not Pretending

Published: 09th August 2010
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Does he love you - really? Or is he just pretending? Why would someone do that? What can you look for so you can find out for sure? What are the telltale signs? I have some great questions you can ask yourself about him and his actions. Pay close attention to the answers because they will tell the truth. This is how to find out - the truth about his love for you.

Does he call you or text you?

Or does he expect you to do all the work in the relationship, without him having to do anything?

What does he talk about when you are together?

Does he talk about himself, what he wants, what he likes, what he is going to do? Or does he talk about you and your feelings, too? Does he criticize women in general or his last girlfriend, complaining that it was all her fault that the relationship ended? Male psychology says that if he loves you, he will be interested in you as much as in himself.

When you go out together, what happens?

Do YOU ask HIM for a date? If you really did make a guy fall in love and make him commit to you, HE should ask YOU out, right? And who pays? Do you pay your own way? That would be ok sometimes, but what about the sharing that you would expect from a boyfriend / husband / lover / soul mate?

Does he insist on doing things that he enjoys?

Does he also plan things that you want to do? Does he love you? If he does, he will want to make you happy, not just focusing on himself.

If HIS needs and wants are the real attraction in the relationship, good dating advice says that there is a real problem in the relationship. If his focus is on himself, that needs to change, or you need to fall in love with someone else.

It is easy to attract men for the wrong reason. Some men feel that women are easy targets; they will pretend to love the woman, but only to get a sexual hookup or for money. Because there are so many predators in the world, please examine this man and his motives very carefully.

I wish you success. I wish you happiness. I hope that the answer to the question - does he love you -is a big yes.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.

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