Being friends first makes a guy fall in love

Published: 14th July 2010
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Do you have your eye on a guy? Do you find yourself questioning what makes a guy fall in love? Are you wondering if this guy could ever love you? All girls do it. Spot a guy and find themselves thinking about him or hoping to bump into him again sometime soon. In the meantime, their minds go crazy trying to figure out how to get this guy's attention. But seriously girls, you don't have to go crazy. There are simple steps to help you on your quest. Don't go crazy as that never makes a guy fall in love.

First of all, it best not to think of it as a quest. Instead ask yourself what do you really know about this guy. What is it about him that has caught your attention? Is it something real like the way he looks at you or the way he laughs? Or is it something frivolous like the way he only smokes the same brand as cigarettes as you. If it's something like this, you have to admit you don't really know this guy at all and that's the best place to start. Taking the time to really get to know a guy is the first step towards what makes a guy fall in love.

This may sound like a tall order and it is. Making new friends does not come naturally to us all and making friends with a guy that secretly you like is one of the most difficult things to do but you have to think of the pay off.

Think about what friends mean to each other. Real friends don't judge; they listen to each other's problems; they comfort each other in times of difficulty; they get to know each other's families; they can be comfortable with each other regardless of the situation. This is what you are aiming for with your heart's desire.

It is only by putting the time and effort and developing a real emotional connection with a guy that you have any chance of a lasting relationship. You want someone who you know is going to be there for you when you really need him. Guess what? He wants the same thing. If you act like nothing is important to you when you are around him, then he'll think nothing is important. So don't do that. Let him know what's important to you. Let him know - subtly - that he's important to you and you've cracked the first code as to what makes a guy fall in love.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.

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